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Creamy Southern Coleslaw

Jun 11, 2022 · 38 Comments

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Homemade Creamy Southern Coleslaw is the perfect combination of creamy, sweet, fresh, and tangy. It is quick and easy to make, and has a secret ingredient in the dressing that will make it the best you've ever had!

Creamy coleslaw in a clear glass bowl on a yellow flower pot holder with a wooden spoon sticking out

Creamy Southern Coleslaw

It turns out that the trick to coleslaw is that it's southern. 

I've tried making coleslaw in the past, but it just came out blah.  Then, as I was flipping through the hubby's southern grandma's cookbook, I found her recipe for coleslaw.

Given my success rate for her other recipes, like this oven fried chicken which would also go amazingly with this creamy southern coleslaw recipe, I decided to try her coleslaw recipe too. And OMG. Perfection.

This Creamy Southern Coleslaw is the perfect combination of creamy, sweet, fresh, and tangy. It is just indescribably good. You have to try it yourself. 

It's super easy to make too.  After you prep the cabbage and carrots, you just mix everything in the bowl and refrigerate until you're ready to eat!

What is the Best Coleslaw Dressing?

Home dressing is the best coleslaw dressing. Absolutely. Definitely. Hands down.

Making a dressing might sound intimidating, but it's actually super easy.

It uses just a few ingredients that you probably already have around the pantry, such as mayo, sour cream, vinegar, and onion powder.

The secret ingredient in this dressing (and the reason that this recipe is SO MUCH better than every recipe I've tried!) is fresh squeezed lemon juice. It brings the perfect amount of freshness to the dressing to make it perfect.

What Kind of Cabbage Do You Use to Make Coleslaw?

For this southern creamy coleslaw recipe, I almost always use classic green cabbage.

If you're feeling fancy, you can cut up a little bit of red cabbage as well to give it some color. However, I usually just skip it because I know I'll have a lot leftover, and I hate waste.

If you want to make this recipe fast, you can skip the prep work and just use a bag mix. No judging here. But you may need to use 2 bags for the amount of dressing in this recipe.

Creamy coleslaw in a clear glass bowl on a yellow flower pot holder with a wooden spoon sticking out

Try Your Creamy Southern Coleslaw with These Recipes

  • Deviled Egg Potato Salad - perfect to complement your coleslaw at a cookout!
  • Pizza Pasta Salad - another family favorite!
  • Beer Battered Fish - can't eat fried fish without coleslaw!
  • Southern Cornmeal Catfish - or tried this southern fried catfish!
  • Baked Cajun Catfish - or the baked version, if you prefer!
Creamy coleslaw in a clear glass bowl on a yellow flower pot holder with a wooden spoon sticking out

Creamy Southern Coleslaw

This quick and easy homemade Creamy Southern Coleslaw is the perfect combination of creamy, sweet, fresh, and tangy. It makes a delicious side and it's my favorite for pulled pork, too! It is just indescribably good. You have to try it for yourself!
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Course: Side Dish
Cuisine: American
Keyword: Creamy Coleslaw, Southern Coleslaw, Southern Creamy Coleslaw
Prep Time: 15 minutes minutes
Total Time: 15 minutes minutes
Servings: 12
Calories: 58kcal
Author: Michelle
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Ingredients

  • 5 cups shredded cabbage
  • ½ cup shredded carrot
  • ¼ cup sour cream
  • ¼ cup mayo
  • 2 tablespoons vinegar
  • 2 tablespoons sugar
  • 1 tablespoon fresh squeezed lemon juice
  • ½ teaspoon salt
  • ½ teaspoon pepper
  • Pinch of onion powder

Instructions

  • In a large bowl, add shredded cabbage and carrots. Toss to combine. Set aside
  • In a second bowl, add remaining ingredients to make dressing. Whisk together until smooth.
  • Pour dressing mixture over cabbage and carrots. Fold in until dressing is incorporated.
  • Cover and refrigerate for at least one hour or overnight.
  • Serve cool.

Notes

  • This coleslaw is naturally gluten free. You can also make it dairy free by subbing the sour cream with more mayo or by using coconut cream or plain unsweetened almond or coconut yogurt.
  • Low carb or keto? Just take out the sugar and use 1-2 drops stevia instead. If you'd rather not use sour cream as well, just replace it with extra mayo or heavy cream (the lemon juice and vinegar will turn the cream the consistency of sour cream which will work perfectly!)
  • Be sure to chill your coleslaw for at least 1-2 hours before serving to let the flavors marry. This is important! It's so much better this way!
  • Store in an airtight container in the refrigerator for up to 3 days. The closer you make it to when you want to serve it, the crisper the cabbage will be. It may be more soft as you approach the 3 day mark.
  • To make ahead: (without the cabbage getting soft!) Prepare cabbage with carrots and store in a freezer bag in the refrigerator. Prepare dressing separately and store in an air tight container in the refrigerator. Two hours before serving, add cabbage mixture and dressing to a large bowl and mix together. Cover and chill before serving.
 
Nutrition Facts are for ½ cup coleslaw.

Nutrition

Serving: 0.5cups | Calories: 58kcal | Carbohydrates: 4g | Protein: 0g | Fat: 4g | Saturated Fat: 1g | Cholesterol: 4mg | Sodium: 139mg | Potassium: 73mg | Fiber: 0g | Sugar: 3g | Vitamin A: 950IU | Vitamin C: 11mg | Calcium: 19mg | Iron: 0.2mg
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UPDATES: This recipe was originally published in April 2018, but was republished in May 2019 with updated photos, step-by-step directions, and a how-to video.

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  1. Kate | The Organized Dream says

    April 16, 2018 at 11:04 am

    I love coleslaw and this recipe looks great. I'll have to make this for Memorial Day for sure!

    Reply
  2. Brittany Poulson says

    April 16, 2018 at 2:48 pm

    This looks so simple and delicious!

    Reply
  3. Marlynn | UrbanBlissLife says

    April 16, 2018 at 4:38 pm

    This would be such a hit with my family! This looks so good!

    Reply
  4. kristen says

    April 16, 2018 at 5:12 pm

    yum! I am such a sucker for coleslaw! If I could I would add it to every meal! I love how simple but delish this recipe is!

    Reply
  5. Jennifer Maune says

    April 16, 2018 at 8:46 pm

    The oven fried chicken definitely sounds really good alongside this cole slaw! I'll have to try out this recipe for sure.

    -Jennifer
    https://maunelegacy.com

    Reply
  6. Denay DeGuzman says

    April 16, 2018 at 9:33 pm

    What a fabulous recipe for coleslaw! I actually had a side of coleslaw this evening at a restaurant. I'm so happy to have your delicious recipe so I can make it at home in my own kitchen. 🙂

    Reply
  7. Joan Cajic says

    April 17, 2018 at 5:06 am

    I love coleslaw goes so well with some fried chicken and this looks so good.

    Reply
  8. Patricia @ Grab a Plate says

    April 17, 2018 at 11:31 am

    How wonderful to have your husband's grandmother's recipes! Family recipes are always something to cherish! This looks like amazing coleslaw! I love it on so many things (or on the side)!

    Reply
  9. Miz Helen says

    April 25, 2018 at 7:02 pm

    Congratulations!
    Your post is featured on our Top Ten This week at Full Plate Thursday and we are pinning it to our Features Board. Thanks so much for sharing with us and enjoy your new Red Plate.
    Miz Helen

    Reply
  10. Tayler Ross says

    June 07, 2019 at 10:41 am

    Creamy coleslaw is my favorite! I can't wait to try this delicious looking recipe!

    Reply
    • Michelle says

      June 07, 2019 at 12:43 pm

      Mine too! Let me know how it goes!

      Reply
  11. Diana Reis says

    June 07, 2019 at 11:04 am

    I can't host a barbecue without serving coleslaw. I can't wait to try this and give my barbecue that southern touch.

    Reply
    • Michelle says

      June 07, 2019 at 12:43 pm

      Us neither! I hope you love it!

      Reply
  12. Amy | The Cook Report says

    June 07, 2019 at 11:07 am

    Looks like the perfect summer side dish!

    Reply
    • Michelle says

      June 07, 2019 at 12:43 pm

      Thank you! We love it in the summer, but make it all year long too!

      Reply
  13. Anita @ Daily Cooking Quest says

    June 07, 2019 at 11:14 am

    Coleslaw is a good standby salad to have since everyone loves it. And it is always a hit when paired with grilled food on any BBQ event.

    Reply
    • Michelle says

      June 07, 2019 at 12:42 pm

      Yes! We'll be making some more this weekend, and as a side when we go on vacation in a couple weeks!

      Reply
  14. Cookilicious says

    June 07, 2019 at 12:25 pm

    This is my husband's favorite..I will try out your version 🙂

    Reply
  15. maryanne says

    May 13, 2021 at 10:23 am

    One of the best coleslaw recipes I've ever tasted!! Thanks for the recipe!

    Reply
  16. Andrea says

    May 13, 2021 at 10:55 am

    Southern creamy slaw is the best! This recipe is perfect and makes the best coleslaw.

    Reply
  17. veenaazmanov says

    May 13, 2021 at 11:00 am

    Thanks for such a lovely crunchy and creamy coleslaw recipe. Perfect as a spread on Sandwiches and Burgers or best as a healthy salad option too.

    Reply
  18. rebecca says

    May 13, 2021 at 11:18 am

    I love a good coleslaw recipe! this one is particularly great because it's so easy

    Reply
  19. Nathan says

    May 13, 2021 at 11:26 am

    I love coleslaw for the summer months, and I don't know if I would've thought to add the lemon juice. Sounds absolutely fantastic, can't wait to give it a try!

    Reply
  20. Susan Kazanjian says

    May 13, 2021 at 1:49 pm

    looks awesome. would some fresh onion work too?

    Reply
    • Michelle says

      May 16, 2021 at 2:26 pm

      I would maybe use just a tablespoon or so minced, or you can use a couple thinly sliced green onions, since they're a little milder.

      Reply
  21. restaurantthatdeliversnearme.website says

    May 14, 2021 at 6:24 am

    Thanks for the recipe.

    Reply
  22. Lorie says

    May 22, 2022 at 4:01 pm

    Just to let you know that by mixing milk or cream with vinegar MAKES VINEGAR! And when someone doesn't want to use dairy is the main reason most people don't do sour cream.

    Reply
    • Michelle says

      May 23, 2022 at 7:58 am

      Actually dairy (milk or cream) mixed with vinegar (or lemon juice) makes a version of buttermilk. It helps to thicken/curdle the dairy like sour cream.
      And if you read the recipe notes, I tell you how to make this recipe dairy free.

      Reply
  23. Beth Sachs says

    September 01, 2022 at 9:12 am

    Such a delicious coleslaw recipe. So creamy and I love the addition of the onion powder. Perfect with burgers.

    Reply
  24. Jessie says

    September 01, 2022 at 9:26 am

    Ok so I'm not usually a coleslaw person but I thiiiiiiink you might have converted me with this one. It's so bright and crisp and fresh! Love that little pop of vinegar in there - it makes it feel super light and refreshing.

    Reply
  25. Gloria says

    September 01, 2022 at 9:30 am

    Coleslaw is always a hit at parties. This recipe sounds delicious. It will be a hit with my guests this weekend.

    Reply
  26. Katherine says

    September 01, 2022 at 9:41 am

    This is our family's favorite coleslaw - hands down!

    Reply
  27. Sue says

    September 11, 2022 at 8:29 am

    The sour cream in this recipe takes it over the top!

    Reply
  28. Sunrita says

    September 11, 2022 at 9:06 am

    I hame sandwiches out if this coleslaw recipe and it was so yummy. Love it.

    Reply
  29. Dana Sandonato says

    September 11, 2022 at 9:51 am

    This coleslaw is such a treat! We usually do a vinegar-based slaw since its my husbands preference and it's become routine but I made this over the weekend and it was a hit!

    Reply
  30. Janessa says

    September 11, 2022 at 11:57 am

    Such a great coleslaw. The added lemon juice in the dressing adds such a fresh pop of flavour.

    Reply
  31. Sandy says

    October 06, 2023 at 1:35 pm

    My mother & grandmother were fabulous Southern cooks. I finally forced my mother to make coleslaw while I watched. If you like sweet coleslaw try this recipe. Mix in bowl 1/4 cup sugar, 1/4 cup milk, 1/2 cup mayonnaise. Whisk for about 30 seconds at first it will look lumpy then it smooths out. Then add 1 lb cole slaw mix (cabbage, carrots, etc). We don't like soggy cole slaw so I make this about 20 minutes prior to serving dinner.

    Reply
    • Michelle says

      October 09, 2023 at 3:47 pm

      That sounds similar to the recipe my husband's aunt makes that our family loves too! Delicious. And thanks for sharing! 🙂

      Reply

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